WHY IS SPENDING TIME WITH MY BABY SO DAMN DIFFICULT FOR ME?
“How am I meant to grow my business and be a good dad?”
“Why do I feel so lonely and frustrated?”
“Is my relationship doomed?”
THESE ARE THE KIND OF QUESTIONS WE ALL ASK OURSELVES AS DADS WHO RUN OUR OWN BUSINESSES -- BUT NEVER DARE SHARE WITH ANYONE ELSE.
I remember when I was single, I had a dream: One day I would meet the perfect woman, have wonderful kids, run a successful business, and we would all be one happy family.
Well, I married my soul mate, I do what I love and am successful at it.
However, it took only a few weeks if not days after becoming a dad, until the harsh reality hit me that being a parent would be a real challenge.
Suddenly, life was so different:
I didn’t sleep properly and felt exhausted and tired most of the day. I started procrastinating at work, miss deadlines for projects I was working on, getting irritated and angry very easily.
And if that was not enough, my wife and I would have all these senseless arguments that would suck out all our energy. I would become very defensive and say things I would quickly regret, creating this unbearable tension between us. These were the moments where I understood how easily a relationship can fall apart.
Worst of all, when I did do my best to be a good dad and spend quality time with our son, I would not really know how to entertain him for more than 15 minutes, often feeling helpless and frustrated.
I would ask myself:
“Isn’t parenting something we should naturally be good at?”
“And how do other dads manage to run big businesses while being amazing dads and husbands?”
But the truth is, many don’t. They just don’t speak about the “not so sexy side of parenting” or the difficulties of trying to reconcile business and family commitments.
This is why so many of us start panicking every time we face a difficult challenge, thinking that something is wrong with us.
IF THIS IS SOMETHING YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED, I HAVE GREAT NEWS FOR YOU
What if I told you that becoming a father offers you the perfect opportunity to improve your relationship with your wife so you both experience levels of love that go beyond your wildest imagination?
That this is the time for you to learn how to double your productivity so that you can become more successful than ever before, while also enjoying lots of free time for yourself and your family?
And that by learning a few simple skills, being a dad could suddenly become the most enriching experience of your life…
Hi, I'm Allon Khakshouri
Former agent of world number one tennis player Novak Djokovic, best-selling author, and high-performance expert
LET ME SHARE WITH YOU A BIG SECRET
Most men who are raving to all their friends and family about how thrilled they feel as dads, encounter the same daily battles as you and me. They endure sleepless nights, feel exhausted and overwhelmed and have constant quarrels about stupid things with their spouses.
They just don’t speak about them and hope somehow someday things will miraculously become easier. Until then, they cope with their new life situation by settling for one of two scenarios.
Some men follow their “PROVIDER INSTINCT” which kicks in after the birth of their baby. Their main motivation is to earn as much money as possible in what they consider their best business years. As a result, they end up living the dreaded rat race, barely finding undistracted moments for their family.
Sadly, these men don’t even notice how their relationships are deteriorating, until it’s too late. Feelings of loneliness and frustration eventually make the marriage unbearable.
Other dads dedicate most of their time to their family, at the EXPENSE OF THEIR CAREER. While they may enjoy a deeper sense of connection with their loved ones, it comes at a price. They sense that they could be doing BIGGER and BETTER THINGS, fulfill their business potential and secure complete financial independence for themselves and their families.
By sacrificing their professional ambitions, these men often blame themselves and their families for their fears related to money- especially now that they are responsible for entire families. They feel depressed that they are unable to support their kids with world-class education, or take their families on vacations due to a lack of money.
IN BOTH CASES MANY DADS END UP LIVING WITH BIG REGRETS
Sadly, when that happens, we compromise our success and happiness in two crucial ways:
AND GUESS WHO SUFFERS THE MOST WHEN PARENTS DON’T GET ALONG?
Your baby, of course.
This is because children need nothing more than ENGAGED and LOVING PARENTS in order to develop emotionally and intellectually. Unfortunately, when parents FEEL DISTRESSED, they become LESS RESPONSIVE TO THE NEEDS OF THEIR BABIES.
SO WHAT DO SUCCESSFUL PARENTS DO SO DIFFERENTLY?
Consciously or not, these moms and dads see the birth of their child as an opportunity for growth and improvement.
Rather than just hoping things will settle down over time, business dads decide to become more PRODUCTIVE at work, IMPROVE THEIR FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS and create the kind of habits that allow them to FEEL ENERGIZED AND INSPIRED wherever they go.
AND HERE IS THE BEST PART: THIS PROCESS DOES NOT NEED TO BE DIFFICULT!
Having worked with some of the world’s best athletes, including three world #1 tennis players, I already knew that A FEW SIMPLE ROUTINES CAN TRIGGER MASSIVE RESULTS. This is how every top performer becomes exceptional. And it is also how I have achieved my biggest successes!
I remember traveling the globe as a sports agent living the ultimate bachelor life. I met many beautiful women wherever I went, but somehow I was not able to maintain long term relationships. This made me feel lonely at times.
One day I was thinking about how I would discuss with my clients about overcoming a difficult situation and the importance of loving a big challenge. Yet, here I was– failing in what was my biggest life goal. At some level, I felt I was lacking integrity, preaching something I didn’t follow myself.
So I made it my mission to find out how I could become the kind of guy who would attract the love of my life. And within two years of introducing a few simple habits into my daily routine, I met my dream wife. Thanks to simple but consistent efforts, I experienced more joy and happiness than I ever thought was possible.
In fact, I even wrote a book about my journey from being a bachelor to finding the love of my life…
“Allon Khakshouri has written a clear, insightful book on personal peak performance derived from his professional experience as a world-class tennis promoter. Filled with anecdotes from the world of elite tennis, Engaged chronicles his parallel journey to a fulfilling relationship through mindful self-improvement. A must-read for anyone learning how to love. Definitely recommend!”
“Personal stories of the author make it an easy and an exciting read. The book includes many advices that can trigger personal growth and development. We often get influenced by the opinions of others so much that we forget about what is best for us. In order to attract the person of your dreams you have to start by working on yourself first. I highly recommend this book to people who are trying to find themselves and a lifetime companion.”
“I heard about this book from a friend. It was just released and got it on the kindle. The author with pure honestly takes you through major life cycle events that changed his life. It's well written and very authentic. Also very much enjoyed all the personal anecdotes. A very insightful read. Definitely recommend.”
After the initial joy of becoming a dad, something similar happened:
Once again I realized that being an engaged and loving dad was much harder than expected. At the same time, I also appreciated the big opportunity to discover HOW I COULD BECOME A MUCH BETTER HUSBAND, DAD, AND BUSINESS-MAN.
I spent hours studying HOW TO BECOME MORE FOCUSED and PRODUCTIVE so that I would create more free time for my family. I researched SPECIFIC ROUTINES that would make me BECOME A BETTER, HAPPIER DAD, and HUSBAND and tested dozens of different strategies that would allow me to feel more ENERGIZED and WELL-RESTED.
What I found was that MASTERING HOW TO RECONCILE OUR PROFESSIONAL – and PERSONAL LIVES is the most important skill any man can learn, as it can literally make or break us in our quest to find success and happiness.
And that doing well in these two crucial areas of our lives does not need to be that difficult — all it takes are A FEW SPECIFIC HABITS that we add into our lifestyle that makes us more efficient at work and more effective in our relationships.
Specifically, I discovered FOUR STEPS THAT ALLOWED ME ESCAPE THE INITIAL TURMOIL OF PARENTHOOD. These steps have transformed my life, the life of my family and made me a happier and more successful person.
The 4-week video course that will show you how to combine running a successful business with being the loving and engaged father you know your baby needs!
Step 1 :
Find Out How To Triple Your Productivity By Doing Less Not More!
Step 2 :
Introduce Tiny Little Habits That Will Help You Connect With Your Little One In Ways You Thought Only Possible For Moms…..
Step 3 :
Create More Joy And Happiness In Your Relationship With Your Wife.
Just imagine how your life could look like if you would be RUNNING A HIGHLY SUCCESSFUL BUSINESS, while also having the TIME AND ENERGY TO ENJOY AMAZING RELATIONSHIPS WITH YOUR LOVED ONES. Isn’t that what we all consider true freedom?
THE GOOD NEWS IS THAT THIS IS POSSIBLE FOR YOU IN LESS TIME THAN YOU THINK.
You see, THE SECRET TO SUCCESS IS NOT WORKING HARDER, BUT WORKING SMARTER. Or do you think that Millionaires and Billionaires have so much more time than you and me?
But that is only part of the truth:
You also want to create REGULAR HABITS THAT ENSURE YOU SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH YOUR FAMILY. What is all the success in the world worth, if we can’t enjoy ourselves, barely create those unforgettable moments with our partner that make us feel loved and appreciated, and miss out on seeing our kids grow up?
To make this process AS EASY AND AS ENJOYABLE AS POSSIBLE for you, I have created a very simple to follow program that will show exactly how to shift your life from being a stressed out Business Man into becoming a fulfilled and happy Business Dad.
In four simple steps, you will discover how to view day to day struggles as opportunities to improve the quality of your life, incorporate strategies to become super-productive and energized, and learn the most effective way to connect with your loved ones in ways you thought were impossible.
LET ME SHARE WITH YOU THE 4 STEPS TO BECOMING A TRUE BUSINESS-DAD
Remember, spending time with your baby does not need to be so damn difficult.
Right now, you may be feeling exhausted and overwhelmed by the many sleepless nights, constant quarrels with your wife and the many new responsibilities around your baby, and this is completely normal. However, nothing will change if you don’t take immediate action–in fact, things will only get worse, making you feel miserable at work and at home.
I know how busy you are, which is why we have a very simple system consisting of four steps. You will learn how to develop the right kind of mindset to be both an amazing dad and business-man, create more free time for yourself and your family without sacrificing your business, feel energized and alive no matter what you are doing, while loving your life as a working dad.
My goal in this program is NOT to overwhelm you with tons of information. Instead, I am giving you exactly what you need to INSTANTLY TRANSFORM YOUR EXPERIENCE AS A HARD WORKING DAD.
You will receive one module a week so you have time to really digest the information. For your convenience, you will be getting them in the following downloadable formats:
- MP3 – So you can listen to the module anywhere using your mobile phone.
- Audio/Video – So you can have access to the course even while offline.
- Slides – In case you want to review the slides.
To ensure that you follow through with what you learn, you will also get a WORKBOOK for each class.
By joining From Business Man to Business Dad today, you will receive the entire program with all the BONUSES FOR JUST $47. However, this offer ends this Friday, at 23:59 European time.
AND HERE IS MY PROMISE
You have absolutely nothing to lose:
If you don’t LOVE the course I insist that I give you 100% OF YOUR MONEY BACK. After 30 days, if you don’t feel you are being more productive at work and spending more quality time with your family, just email me and I will refund you the entire price of the course.
I want your choice to join FROM BUSINESS MAN TO BUSINESS DAD be a no-brainer –a decision where you have absolutely no risk, so much to gain.
REMEMBER, becoming a father is a HUGE LIFE EVENT.
How you handle this challenge will affect all areas of your life. By proving to yourself that it is possible to do well in business while being an amazing husband and dad, you will generate the kind of confidence that will allow you to achieve anything you desire.
You will experience more joy and happiness and make everyone around you feel better. You will serve as a true role model for your family by showing them that it is possible to be both successful and happy, setting a high standard and legacy for future generations to come.
Is there anything more important than that?
So if you are ready to discover how being a father can become the most rewarding experience of your life, JOIN FROM BUSINESS MAN TO BUSINESS DAD.